Robert Fulghum, author Robert Fulghum's official web site
Journal Mender of Destinies Books Artshow Plays About the Author
JOURNAL

The Onion at the Center of the Universe

You and They and Lousie

The Tale of the Papagano

The Great Wheel

Wishing

Hard to Ignore

Rules of Thumb

Hand Jive

Eight Pieces of the Puzzle of the Week Just Past

The Museum of Small Wonders



Finally, the English Edition!
Third Wish
A NOVEL IN FIVE PARTS

Order from Amazon

click here for the details
Robert Fulghum Speaking Engagements: Contact http://BrightSightGroup.com
Please Note: This journal contains a wide variety of stuff -- complete stories, bits and pieces, commentary, and who-knows-what else. As is always the case these days, the material is protected by copyright. On the other hand, I publish it here to be shared. Feel free to pass it on. Just give me credit. Fair enough?
September 21, 2014

Pack Creek Ranch - Moab, Utah
Third week in September, 2014
The warm days, and clear cool nights continue.
More gold and orange touches of aspen leaf color far up the valley.
Afternoon thunderstorms in the mountains from time to time.

THE ONION AT THE CENTER OF THE UNIVERSE

Did you ever give someone an onion as a celebratory gift?
I did that.
Last week, as a matter of fact - when my wife opened an exhibition of her paintings in Seattle - and I was here in Moab.
My friend, Ronnie the Rooster, delivered the onion to her.
Along with it, there was something I once wrote about onions.
Alice, a character in my novel, Third Wish, gave her companion, Max-Pol, an onion as an un-birthday present.
Here’s the account:

* * *

He takes the onion out of the box and holds it in his hands.
About the size of a baseball.
Its outside layer is paper-like - pale, pinkish-brown, and striped.
He knows that the next layer will be pansy purple, and the layers after that will fade from purple into ivory and white and on into a final lime-green kernel at the center.

At the bottom of the onion are the remains of roots.
At the top are the first felt-green sprouting tips of assertive growth.
The kernel and roots and tips are signs that the onion is ready to live again if called upon.
The onion isn’t dead.
It is ready and waiting.

Placing the onion on the table, he reads the accompanying note:

“Granted that a bouquet of flowers for an un-birthday is more customary, a bouquet has a limited life. Fleeting beauty is poetic, but flowers are dead on arrival – a fading, fugitive, momentary gesture. An onion, on the other hand, is not only beautiful; it is useful and contains lasting possibility.”

“Moreover, an onion is a bouquet in a way. The bulb of a member of the lily family. If allowed and encouraged, it will flower. And the seeds will make more onions. And more flowers.

“You may, of course, eat it raw just as it is – both bulb and stems. Chop it, grate it, slice it, combine it with many ingredients, fry it, or bake it. Nothing adds sweet tangy flavor to food like onions. What would a sauce be without them – or soup or stew or roast or salad?

“Or you may plant the onion and, if encouraged, it will grow. I have one in a glass jar on my windowsill – roots in the water, leaves in the air, stems budding. Self-perpetuating if allowed to go to seed, hundreds more onions may be grown. And those, if dried, braided into long strings, and hung in the kitchen, will keep the smell of summer soil and sunlight through the winter.

“More. The outer skin is paper and may be written on or else boiled and used as a red stain for eggs at Easter, or to dye thread, which may in turn be woven into scarlet blankets, as the Cretan villagers once did. “Medicinal qualities, as well. Good for your basic health.

“And no encounter with an onion is incidental. Its juice brings tears to your eyes and perfume to your fingers and breath. If you rub the juice on the bottom of your feet your breath will smell of onions the next day. An onion is oils and sugars and water and sophisticated compounds and complex crystalline structures. A marvel in a chemist’s lab or under a microscope.

“The onion is a metaphor for the layered nature of existence itself. At its green center lies the germ of infinite possibility. When the farmer wanted to know why I was being so careful in choosing one onion, and I told him, he gave me the onion and said that ‘Fecund’ is the essence of onion.

“And as a gesture on your un-birthday, the onion expresses the poignant bittersweet truth of evanescent affection.
Flavor for the life.
Anything looked at carefully may be a window on the universe.”

* * *

In that spirit, I gave my wife an onion.
Because she’s an artist – and sees the world through creative eyes.
She wasn’t surprised at the gift.
She understands and shares my values and ways.
When she arrives in Moab in a couple of weeks I will give her a 25 pound bag of newly harvested onions I bought on my trip down from Seattle.
Flowers would only be dead compost in a short time.
The onions will last and be used all Winter.
Every time she cooks with one, she will be reminded of me and us and the mystery of life and the universe and everything.

http://www.facebook.com/robertleefulghum

link to this story




September 17, 2014

Pack Creek Ranch - Moab, Utah
The middle of September, 2014
Warm days, clear, cool nights.
First golden touches of aspen leaves far up the valley.
Afternoon thunderstorms in the mountains round about.

YOU AND THEY AND LOUISE

For most of your life you will bear the burden of a simple question.
One indelibly written on the walls of your active mind from early childhood.
The question will shape how you dress and how you behave.
It will affect your friendships, your love life, and your job.
The question will be an aspect of most of the choices you make.

The question is: “What will They think?”

How you imagine you appear to other people will define you in subtle ways.
All through most of your life.

At least until that fine day comes when you have lived long enough to understand the serious flaw embedded in the question.
It’s this:
You finally realize that you cannot ever know what They really think about you.
Never, ever.
They don’t ask and they don’t tell.

You will know that in part because you know you are other people’s They.
And you know you rarely ever tell anybody what you really think of them or how they look or what they do.
Not because you are dishonest, but because you want to be liked and loved and admired and trusted.
Not because you are devious, but because you wish to do no harm.
That’s how They operate, too.

On top of that, you are not even really certain what you think of you.
Your own self-image constantly varies from day to day, and week to week, and year to year, and situation to situation – as long as you live.
Ranging from “Looking good” to “God help me.”

In sum, what you think of you, what you think of others, and what They think of you is never set in concrete – but always a mysterious, moving mix.
You’ll never know for sure . . .
Not even when They say something positive.

The great blues man, B.B.King, put it more succinctly this way:
“Only my mother really loves me, and she may be jiving me, too.”

This truth about what They think will come to you about the time you accept the fact that you look old.
Grey hair or bald head, wrinkled skin, fat ass or bulging belly.
Dressed for comfort, not style.
That kind of old.

Oh, sure, you may not feel old or think old or act old.
But you know you look old – the mirror doesn’t lie or joke around.
But this may be seen as good news.
Because the way you appear to others now is a free pass to escape from the jail of “What will They think?”
You have a ticket to ride.
The world will cut you lots of slack when you look old.
You may go ahead and weird out – be charmingly eccentric.
What They think is their problem, not yours.
Age has its privileges.

For example:
I passed the Moab city park where the lush green grass was being watered.
My mind slipped into fantasy:
I could strip down to my boxer shorts, and frolic around through the sprinklers laughing, and shouting “I need candy!”
What harm?
Suppose other old people did that?
So?
Does what They think matter?

Well, They might call the police.
But probably not right away.
Because this would be a wonderfully entertaining distraction – an old geek running wild and free in the park on a beautiful day.
If
They have any candy, They might even give me some.
When the police do come, I would probably not be arrested.
All I have to do is explain that I have not gone crazy – I’ve gone sane.
I just wanted to set an example.
I’d say I felt a need to be happy and young again, like once upon a long time ago when running around under sprinklers was a really fine thing to do.
And I hope
They – and the police - would laugh and secretly hope They will be like me someday.

No, I haven’t done that . . . not yet . . . but it’s a plan.

What I have actually done is a little less provocative.
I go around accompanied by a large stuffed toy orangutan in a pink party dress – with one tattooed arm, and ballet slippers on her feet.
Louise.

At first I was worried about what They might think – but not anymore.
By and large people are amused and pleased.
Strangers will wave or talk to me – and to my orangutan.
They want to have their picture taken with me and my companion.
And They will not call the police.
In Moab They will send photos from their cell phones to friends, saying:
“Louise is back in town.”

As you may recall from a previous web journal posting, Louise came into my life as a whimsical joke.
I needed a special partner for a tango dancing exhibition.
And there she was in a toy store window – smiling winsomely at me.
I was enchanted and wondered about her tango inclinations.
She proved to be a great tango dancer – followed my leads without a single mistake, to great applause from the audience.
And she was the belle of the ball – lots of men wanted a dance with her.
That was how I first learned Louise was comic relief in an all-too-serious world, where foolish joy was in high demand.

As I carried Louise around on a regular basis, I learned it was like having a cute baby or a friendly fluffy dog along with me.
She taught me that my assumptions about what They thought was often wrong – They liked Louise, and if I was good enough for Louise, then I must be OK, too.
They look forward to having her around.

After 1,500 miles and five days on the road, I arrived in Moab and went straight to the City Market to get supplies before heading on up the valley to where I live.
The first person I met didn’t say “Hello” or “How are you?” or “Welcome home.”
They asked, “Where is Louise?”
In my hurry, I had left her in the car.
So I went back out to the car, put Louise in the child’s seat in my shopping cart, and went back inside to shop, which always takes longer because Louise attracts lots of attention.

When I called to make dinner reservations for tonight, I said there would be two of us – me and my orangutan.
And the manager said, “Wonderful! We’ve missed Louise.”

What started out several years ago as a joke has taken on a life of its own.
Louise has become real.
To me and most people who meet her.
She seems to bring out the goofy/friendly side of people – and me.

An old man I met while traveling with Louise is a case in point.
He came over to my car, reached in to take Louise’s hand, and petted her head.
He said she reminded him a lot of his first wife.
“What happened to your first wife,” I asked.
“Oh, she’s actually my only wife – and she’s inside the hardware store shopping – she’ll be out in a minute – you’ll see.”
Sure enough, out came the wife – round, short, frizzy red hair, pink dress, a big smile on her face – a larger human version of Louise.
“How about a trade?” asked the old man.
He walked off laughing.
Leaving me wondering what he told his wife as they drove away.

As always, Louise just smiled, having learned what I never seem to learn – that silence and an inscrutable grin are often taken for wisdom.

To round off this rambling journal entry, here’s a flashback.
A short story in which I played a minor part just before I left Seattle:

A little boy was walking along the sidewalk, holding his dad’s hand.
The child had been scrubbed, groomed, and outfitted.
Fresh haircut, new sport shoes, new backpack.
Under one arm he carried something old and worn – a large stuffed toy animal of uncertain species – loved into a furry lump.

As they walked up to where I was standing waiting for the crosswalk light to change, I said to the father:
“First day of school for your son?”
“Yes. He’s been ready for weeks – he can’t wait to go to school.”
The little boy chimed in, with excitement in his voice:
“Tiger is going to love school,” says the little boy, looking down at the furry lump under his arm.

(silence)

“Well, Tiger isn’t going to school – only you,” said the father.
The child looked up, alarmed, wide-eyed, speechless - “What? Why? But . . .”
The father explained, in solemn tones: “Only children go to school – pets stay home – but he’ll be there when you get back this afternoon.”
“NO, NO, NO,” wailed the little boy.
He collapsed on the sidewalk, clutching his stuffed animal.
He sobbed, “Then . . . I’m not going . . . ever . . . . I hate school.”

The light changed, I walked on.
The father sat down beside his son to explain that what the boy had expected to happen wasn’t going to happen – no matter how much he wanted it to.
That’s life – the way it goes.
When I looked back from a block away, father, son, and Tiger
were still down on the curb in consultation about the expectations of the world and where stuffed animals fit in – or don’t.

A week later, I thought about the kid and his furry lump as I set off on my long-distance road trip with Louise, sitting in the passenger seat as my co-pilot.

I wish I could introduce him to Louise.
I would have explained to the little boy that, as hard as it seems now, his situation will improve - someday.
Someday, when he is old and wrinkled and fat and grey, he can have the stuffed animal of his choosing.
He can take his friend wherever he wants.

He won’t have to worry about what Theythink because he, too, will have learned that essential truth – that you can’t ever know for certain.
So you must go ahead without knowing and make the best of mystery.
Besides, it’s what you think of you that matters most of all.

I would tell him that the world yearns for lightness.
Because life is all too dark and heavy and hard too much of the time.
I would tell him that anything that makes people smile is good.
And if they smile at you, it’s a sign that they think well of you.
And if they smile, they will often come over and want to meet your silent friend – even have their picture taken with the two of you.
They won’t be strangers after that.
And you will go away thinking the world is not as full of sons-a-bitches and idiots and critics as you sometimes do.

As I said, Louise came into my life as a whimsical joke.
But I take her seriously now.
She goes almost everywhere I go.
Because I want to think as well of other people as I can.
I still don’t know what They really think.
But the response to Louise gives me a workable clue.
She’s never let me down.

(https://www.facebook.com/robertleefulghum
see photos on Facebook)

link to this story




September 01, 2014

Seattle, Washington
The first week of September, 2014
Warm afternoons, cool nights.
Some early morning clouds, with a mix of fog and showers before noon.

Here’s another story.
From not so very long ago and not so very far away . . .
Is it true?
Some of it.
The rest could be and should be true, and might well be, sooner or later . . . .

THE TALE OF THE PAPAGANO

One September, when I was living on the Greek island of Crete, I read this fact in a book about birds:
“The average life span of a parrot is one hundred and twenty years.”

That stuck in my mind and became the seed of this story:

A few days later I was sitting on the terrace of a taverna in the mountain village of Kefali. There’s a grand view from there out over a deep valley winding down to the Libyan Sea.
On a clear day you can see all the way to Africa.
And this was a clear day.

Suspended from a rafter of the terrace pergola was a large birdcage.
With long black ribbons hanging down from it, fluttering in the wind. Flowers had been woven into the wires of the cage.
The flowers had been there long enough to dry and fade.
The cage had a melancholy feel about it - poignant - sad - mysterious.
The door was open – the cage was empty.

It seems that an old and much-beloved papagano - parrot - had lived in the cage for many years, but the parrot was nekros – dead - probably.
O Kirios papagano . . .poli leepeemenos . . . -
The Honorable Mr. Parrot - so sad . . .
Apparently it was a long story, but nobody wanted to relate it.
Or the story was not quite finished, and nobody wanted to end it.

That’s all I saw or was told.
The rest of the story came to me as I drove on down the valley to the sea.
It seemed as if I could intuit what happened in my imagination.

It may be said the parrot belonged to an old man.
Or it may be said the old man belonged to the parrot.
Since they were always together – never apart – it is best said that they belonged to each other.

The old man’s parrot liked riding in his car.
The bird rode beside him on a perch hanging from the car’s ceiling.
They bumbled along together, the old man calling out to friends from one side of the car and the parrot hurling a stream of calls and curses and songs out the other side.

One day, the old man had a heart attack while driving his old car, and the car soared off a cliff, tumbled end over end onto the rocks below, and fell into the sea.
The parrot was with him at the time.

“The old man’s time had come,” the villagers said.
“But the papagano had many years left to live – a tragedy.”

The old man’s car and body were recovered, but no trace of the parrot was ever found. Probably dead, but in the absence of the corpse it was possible that the bird had flown free, though nobody knew if the parrot could still fly. And, of course, parrots can’t swim - so its fate was uncertain.

Whatever happened, the parrot was gone.
The door to its cage had been left open just in case it returned.
But months had passed . . . and no papagano.

The man and the bird had been together since the old man was born.
And the parrot had belonged to the old man’s father before him.
The bird had been in the village at least a hundred years.
And it was who-knows-how-much-older than that, having appeared at the end of the 19th century.

As with its disappearance, mystery also shrouded its arrival in the village. There were many stories: The papagano had been blown in from a ship or left behind by the departing Turks or escaped from a zoo or flown in from an African port – but nobody could say for sure.

Some people said the parrot was a Muslim - the only one in the Christian village - because it could recite passages from the Koran and sing songs of the Levant in Arabic.
Some said the bird was the ghost of a Wandering Jew because it could curse in Hebrew and Spanish and German.
It had a prodigious memory.
It knew the names of villagers long dead or departed, and even mimicked their voices, much to the pleased dismay of friends and family.
Furthermore, the parrot could also imitate chickens, crows, goats, sheep, dogs, cats, and donkeys.
Even the animals were often fooled.

Whatever its origins, the bird had become a true Cretan - stubborn when coerced and unwilling to respond on demand. It performed only of its own free will, no matter how sincerely implored, or even when bribed with food.
Reliably unpredictable, usually entertaining, and sometimes demonic. Cretan, for certain.

The parrot seemed to know that the village priest detested the Koran, and it plagued the old man with Islamic scripture whenever he came near its perch. The priest once cursed the parrot, to his regret. For the bird repeated the curses in the unmistakable voice of the good Father.

The absence of the parrot was like the loss of the village historian.
It was a living keeper of memory.

Or the village blabbermouth, depending on how you looked at it.
The villagers thought that a creature that had been around so long must know things none of them knew or could ever know or even wanted to know. Gossip. Solutions to village mysteries. Truths that should not be told.

Not everybody mourned the demise of the parrot.
The parrot’s ability to remember things was feared by some, and they shunned it, being careful not to speak of certain things where the parrot could hear. When the bird disappeared some villagers sighed in relief.

On the other hand the parrot seemed to know many fine old songs.
And seemed to know when many fine old women needed to be reminded of the days of their youth and the sweet nothings they still liked to hear whispered in their ears.

There is a rumor that the bird did not die in the accident, but was found alive, washed up on a beach. And it was killed to keep it from ever repeating certain secrets.
It is also said that the parrot survived, and is flying from village to village telling everything it knows.
And keeping enchantment alive in the hearts of young girls and old women.
The fate of the parrot remains a fine mystery.
And mystery always provokes imagination.

The village never really understand how important the parrot was to their lives until he went missing.
All who pass by the cafe terrace glance at the cage and its open door and wonder if the parrot will ever appear again.
The parrot stands for a kind of hopeful optimism that the balance of the affairs of the village will be restored.

Is that the end of the story?
Perhaps - I don’t know.
Is there a moral or a point?
Perhaps - I don’t know.

The story just seems to follow on from the cage with the open door.
The rest is up to you, make of it what you will.
A parrot is only a parrot, with an occasional exception.
Just in case, be careful what you say around one – they do live a long time.

I suppose, when I think about it, I’m like the parrot.
No original thoughts - nothing entirely new – terminally curious - with just a lifelong assortment of words and sounds and ideas collected from the world and other people.
An imitator, fabulist, singer of old songs.
I am the cage, as well, decorated with flowers and ribbons, with an open door, and a mystery inside.

I’m never quite sure if what I say makes any sense or means anything important. People are nice about it, but one never knows for sure.
Meanwhile, the ‘parrot’ in me keeps occupied, and what he says entertains some people. But what the ‘parrot’ knows can also be dangerous, because there’s usually some complicated truth in it.

Truth is like an onion – you peel layer after layer until you get to the center only to find it was layers all the way in.
The truth is only the sum of all the many versions it takes.
Like an onion, the truth can bring flavor to life or make you cry.
Being a good steward of truth is always problematic.
There’s so much that could be true, and should be true.
That we wish it so.
That’s why we tell each other stories.

link to this story




August 26, 2014

Seattle, Washington
The last week of August, 2014
An ongoing string of clear skies, warm days, and cool nights.
Some early morning fog and clouds.

THE GREAT WHEEL

Our city decided to construct a spiritual monument.
Something large and imposing – along the Elliot Bay waterfront.
A significant expression of peace and tranquility.
An image of universal process.
To be placed alongside one of our busiest traffic routes.

Its purpose would be to remind the citizens of the larger context
of existence and the place of human beings in the universe.
The monument would balance the stress of mundane daily life with an image of the mystery of eternal truths.
Drawing on images out of deep history, we decided to construct a Great Wheel.
A moving mandala – a metaphor for the Circle of Being, the Wheel of Fortune,
and the Wheel of Time.

*(see “images for the Great Wheel of Life” – http://goo.gl/lXLprV )

Ours would be three dimensional, 175 feet tall, turn slowly, and be brightly lit at night so that it might be seen from far away.
Passengers would enter its compartments at ground level, rise slowly to the top, float on around and down, and at the end, get off where they got on.
While riding they would get a look at the frantic traffic of the city, then the sky and sea - sometimes sunrise or sunset - sometimes the phases of the moon, stars, and usually the far Olympic Mountains.
The riders would be connected with the motion of everything that goes round.

Our Great Wheel would be a metaphor – standing for sanity and perspective.
It was hoped that the slow, graceful ride would be calming.
It would give passengers a sense of the wide world and their place in it.
It was hoped that the riders would walk away a little bit enlightened.
And so, two years ago, the Great Wheel was built, and is operational now.
You can see a photograph of it on my Facebook page –
Please take a look at it before you read any further.

( https://www.facebook.com/robertleefulghum )

* * *

“It’s just a Ferris Wheel,” you will say to yourself.
Well, yes, I suppose you can think of it that way.
Or - you can see it as I have – as a spiritual monument.
A positive example of the Law of Unintentional Consequences.

Ferris Wheels have been around for a long time.
They first came to prominence at the World’s Columbian Exposition held in
Chicago in 1893.
George Washington Gale Ferris, Jr., was the designer.
He intended it as a source of entertainment and amusement.
And since that day Ferris Wheels have been built all over the world.
Most major cities have one now.
The largest one is in Las Vegas – 550 feet tall – The High Roller.
An even larger one is under construction in Dubai- 610 feet high.

*( see “images for the Great Wheel” - http://goo.gl/XMh6Ki )

Some people are devoted to roller coasters.
Some say a roller coaster would be a better monument to existence.
And there’s some merit in that.
But not for me - I get my share of terror just driving on a freeway.
I don’t need to be reminded how scary life can be.
I’m a Ferris Wheel man – devoted to slow rides.

My all-time favorite is the small one at the carnival that set up rides at our county fair every year at the end of August – in a field near Waco, Texas.
I went at night when the dust of the day had settled and the air had cooled.
The two-person cars were open to the sky, and if the timing was right the wheel would stop while I and my date were at the very top, gently swinging back and forth to calliope music, with the colored lights of the midway far below, and the stars far above – and us in between.
I was never scared up there – never thought I might throw up.
I felt like flying up and away into the sky.

Looking back, I realize now that it was a small taste of infinite forever.

As I write, the words of two songs come to mind.
One sung by Peter, Paul, and Mary:

Take your place on The Great Mandala
As it moves through your brief moment of time.
Win or lose now you must choose now
And if you lose you’re only losing your life.

And the chorus from a song written by Tom Dundee:

And it’s all such a delicate balance
Takes away just as much as it gives,
To live it is real, to love it is to feel
You’re a part of what everything is.

And it’s all such a delicate balance
As it turns through the circles of air,
To worry does nothing but steals from the loving
And robs from the pleasure that’s there.

link to this story




August 21, 2014

Seattle, Washington
The third week of August, 2014
An ongoing string of clear skies, warm days, and cool nights.
with a few days of welcome showers to cleanse the air.

WISHING

Once upon a time ago, there was,
or may have been . . .
A man, a woman, a child . . .
Who went out to seek . . .
They met a frog, an old lady, a wizard . . .
They were given three wishes . . .
Stones and wishbones . . .
Little did they know . . .
And then one day . . .
Come to find out . . .
Three times three . . .
A year and a day . . .
From that time on . . .
Until this very day . . .
They lived, ever after
Sometimes happily . . .
Sometimes not . . .
But well enough . . .

It’s been a long time since I was told a story.
And almost as long a time since I told one.
But I remember the enchantment:
Evenings around a fire at summer camp – ghost stories.
Bed times before a child fell asleep – fairy tales.

In my novel, Third Wish, Alice is a teller of stories.
She is on the Greek island of Crete.
She spins tales to enchant her friend, Alex.
Like this:

“I have a surprise for you – three wish bones.
They contain wishes, but you must think of them only as metaphors.
Alas, if we actually pull them apart, one of us will get the lucky long half and the other one will get the unlucky short half.
It’s too risky to chance it – one of us will be disappointed.
Just keep the bones as symbols of the trickiness of wishing.”

As they walked along the beach, Alice picked up three smooth stones, and rolled them around in the palm of her hand with her fingers, as if conjuring something from them.

“Alex, would you like to hear a story about wishing?”
“Yes, Tell me.”

“Well, then, as you would begin: The day after once upon a time, not so long ago and not so far away, there may have been an island in the sea much like this one. So people say.

One day a small sailing boat landed on a beach much like this one.
A young woman got out. People went to meet her.
Where do you come from, they asked?
The Coast of Tennessee, she replied.
But Tennessee has no coast.
Really? I could have sworn it did. I was misinformed.

How did you come here, they asked?
From out there. Through three doors:
The Door of Desire, The Door of Confusion, and the Door of Possibility.”
But there are no doors on the sea, they said.
Really? Well, I must be confused.

What can we do for you?
Take me to your king.
We do not have a king. Never have.
Really? Is this not the Island of Any-Where-But-Here?
No.
Oh dear, not again, she said. And she began to cry.
Why have you come, they asked?
I was given three wishes.
I wished for a boat. I wished for a journey. And I wished to see the king.
I’m not where I wanted to be. And I’ve used up my wishes.”
Ah, well, you have been deceived. Or you deceived yourself. But all is not lost. Actually, you are only misguided about the nature of wishing.
What do you mean?”

Long ago we stopped making normal wishes. We found they only led to trouble and disappointment. Especially when employed in threes.
Now we trust only in retroactive wishes, one wish at a time.”
Retroactive wishes?

Yes. When you find yourself in a fine place having a fine time, you might remember a time when your life was awful and how, back then you would have wished you were here.
But, you are here now. Look around you. It’s a wonderful place to be. Where you are is exactly what you would have wished for, had you known. It’s a retroactive wish come true.
Choose three pebbles from this beach to remind you of what you found.

“And she did that,” said Alice –“three pebbles like these.”
Alice placed the smooth stones into Alex’s hand.
“And she lived happily ever after?” he asked.
“Oh, no, nobody ever does that.
But she lived happily for the time being, and that was enough.
Throw the pebbles into the care of the sea.”

And he did that.

(See my Facebook page for photo of the wishbones and stones)
http://www.facebook.com/robertleefulghum

link to this story